By Pastor Sylvia Quah When I share my experience of sexual assault, I have feelings of fear, shame, confusion, helplessness and self-blame. I am even worried that you will doubt my words. My greatest hope is that you will believe me and assure me that it is not my fault. When sharing my experience, please […]
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My story is not as intricate as others, merely a Psalm of God’s love. An ordinary life that bears God’s blessings in full. Since primary school, I’ve known that I like girls though I’m born in a girl’s body. In school, I kept myself close to boys, learning their behavior thinking I could attract other
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My journey as a parent to a child with SSA (Same-Sex Attraction) did not begin with a “Come-Out-Of-The-Closet” moment. It happened so gradually, spanning over years. It started with a few disturbing questions from my child. As parents, we stumbled in the dark to make sense of our faith, values, beliefs and what our child
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I come from a complicated family. Both my parents remarried, so I had elder half-siblings from both sides. Despite my parents’ love for one another, their relationship was destined to doom. My dad had several affairs, which eventually split the family. I stayed with my dad and another woman for some time when my mother
It’s been at least 20 years of working through ED. From the time it didn’t have a name to where I am now; lessons came to light guided with love and wisdom. For every ‘episode’, a takeaway to keep me grounded and hopefully, not fall into it again. Episode 1: “You’re being controlling”. In a
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By Melvin Wong, Ph.D. (2019 December 9) PLUC Newsletter This girl from the slum approached me in Phnom Penh (Cambodia) and held both of her arms high,a gesture that I am very familiar with while visiting orphanages – she wanted me to hold her. I gave her something better. I took her long and flimsy
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